Hi im 19 years old and i found out i was pregnant for the 2nd time. i have now reached 5 months and i went to the doctor to find out the gender. when they were doing the normal sonagram they found that my daughter had anachephaly. it is a very rare birth defect that is found within 1 and 500 pregnances. So the doctor sent me to barns jewish hospital in st. louis to confirm that this was what it is. The doctor there told me my baby could not live outside the womb she had no hope for life. When i asked what to do, he responded i could carry the baby full term and deliver a stillborn or induce now and have the baby. i asked to go ahead and induce now and my medical card would not cover it. so they sent me to a clinic to pay thousands of dollars to kill my baby. i am refusing to do so and i want to know if i can get any help any way.